The Social Accessory – How to Be Valuable to Women

A lot of people have been missing the point of this piece.  This idea presented here seeks to establish a connection between popularity and perceived value.

This connection works in most aspects of life with men and women and in social as well as professional settings.

Many ideas presented may seem obvious to you but may not be so for those just getting into the game and trying to understand the female mind. It is based on a simple idea and that is..

Can They Flaunt You?

We all know that certain types of people get more attention than others. These include the rich, beautiful and famous.

If you are rich, it is much easier for you to attract women then if you are not. It is also much easier for you to make friends in general.

Beauty is an obvious one.  Models get more attention from people than the average Joe and of course, fame is an aphrodisiac. This is why famous people get all kinds of action including rock stars, actors and even old wrinkly politicians.

This is because they all have something in common-

People wants to be associated with these guys because they can flaunt them in front of their social group in order to increase their own status within said group.

This is, of course, a huge generalization and not everyone is that shallow but a lot of people are – as is self-evident.

Many people will say that this only works with shallow unsophisticated people!!

My contention is that this trait is inherent in all of us because we all have egos.

• Many women would love to date or marry a doctor so they can upstage their friend who married a lawyer
• Some intelligent sophisticated women dream about relationships with poets, artists, writers and the like
• Theoretical physicists would love to have their colleagues know that they are friends with the latest noble prize laureate
• An executive will show off his client list at the local health club (or wherever else they socialize) if it includes famous celebrities. This increases his perceived value amongst his colleagues and peers.
• An older woman who is into younger guys would love to show off her newly acquired arm candy especially if he looks like a Greek God (Madonna and Jesus Luz). This would increase her social status amongst her peers if they too value good looking younger men.

If you want to be popular with anyone, you must have something that they value and would love to show off.

I once knew a girl who told me that in college, she would go to parties with a certain well built male friend.

He had an incredible body and she would end up introducing him to people and actively discussing his physique.

This would naturally embarrass him to no end but he would always get to redeem his discomfort with her later in the evening.

If you are funny and can be the center of attention at a party, you can get people to fight in order to claim you as their friend.

Men will want to be your friend too if you exhibit behaviors that they value.. Funny guys make more sales, more tips and get invited to more parties. This is well known!

Physical attributes are wonderful because you don’t have to work to acquire them. A cute dimple or a nice smile will get you places for sure

If you don’t have the required physical attributes, you can  develop other skills to get the attention you deserve.

You can work at being funny, sociable and witty.

You can work on your body or learn everything there is to know about a topic that is of value to the social group you are targeting.

Many dudes can get attention using hot flashy sports cars and expensive suits but the best way is to have a unique personality. This is most prized.

Other well-known aspects that are prized amongst women are status and power. Doctors have status and money. Lawyers have money and power and so do politicians. Rich bankers have a lot of money and that is enough with some women.

Some guys will get elaborate tattoos or piercings. Something that very few people have seen before and they will become prized and much sought after as acquaintances and friends to be flaunted in social gatherings.

In fact, these days you might even wear a weird hat or do magic tricks to get attention in bars as is often practiced these days.

You gotta have an angle and almost any angle will do as long as you can sell it

So, I come back to the original question. Can they flaunt you? What have you got to offer? The goal is to be their prize and to let them chase you and ‘achieve’ you.