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Ladies! I am wagging my finger at you! You know who you are…I am talking specifically to girls in lame and boring relationships. Now this may or may not be your fault. The lameness of the relationship may be blamed squarely on the guy or it may be no one’s fault and just a case of incompatibility. But I seem to be seeing this sort of thing a lot these days. Too many couples are fizzling out and there is no real reason behind it except boredom and general blahhness!
But, although men complain about their women all the time, I have to reach out to you ladies on this one! So forget about all those silly love quotes and love poems and put down that relationship ebook you bought about how to get back with your ex because you are better off without him and if you are still dating him, then it’s time to break up with your abusive boyfriend for good!
Lame relationships are not always about the abusive boyfriend. Sometimes they are about the crazy girlfriend and other times they are just about incompatibility.
I got a girl calling me everyday telling me her boyfriend is lame. She tells me how he is not a real man. She tells me how he doesn’t do anything for her and she is flirting with me like no tomorrow. I ask her why she is still with him then if she hates it so much and her answer is, “well, I don’t want to be single!” Now let us address that for a second. This girl would rather cheat on her boyfriend than break up with him for fear of being single.
Hollywood and Madison Avenue have trumped up the ideas of relationships and dating so much in the minds of women with Diamond advertising campaigns and Kate Hudson movies that women would rather live a lame life than be single and try for happiness. A lot of women talk behind their man’s back like its nothing and that is so painful to hear even if it is about some other poor dude.
I walk down the street and the women who are more likely to check me out are women walking around with other men. Young married chicks are the most notorious lechers. They will literally look me up and down like a cat looks at a fresh tweety bird. Ladies! If your man does not blow your mind in bed and does not treat you like a goddess queen, then do him and yourself a favor and break up with him already. Things can be a lot better for you with another guy and things will never get better with this guy.
If you are the type of woman that needs a strong man and you are with a normal guy, then you like being in a submissive role and if you don’t get that you start questioning the masculinity of your man. A lot of women love normal well adjusted guys and a lot of women love dominating men who naturally take control. You just have the wrong type of guy. Stop bad mouthing him and break up already!
